- A Nigerian woman sparked debate online with her advice to married men regarding unfaithful wives.
- The post, shared by user @Rene_noire on X (formerly Twitter), went viral.
- She suggested that husbands should not leave their marriages if their wives cheat.

A Nigerian woman has stirred widespread debate online after sharing a controversial message advising married men on how to deal with unfaithful wives.
In a viral post by X (formerly Twitter) user @Rene_noire, she encouraged husbands not to leave their marriages when their wives cheat but to stay strong, pray, and remain calm.
She wrote:
“Marriage is not a bed of roses. You have to endure. When your wife cheats, that’s when you should pray the most. Don’t let small boys deceive you or make you lose your blessing.”
She further advised men to be patient, cook their wives’ favourite meals, dress well, and approach them with kindness, adding that “women are like babies one day, she will change.”
The post quickly went viral, generating thousands of reactions across social media. While some users applauded her for promoting forgiveness and patience, others condemned the advice, arguing that it encourages emotional suffering and normalises infidelity.
Her remarks have since rekindled intense discussions on X about love, endurance, and whether prayer alone can mend broken trust in today’s marriages.
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