- A woman has voiced her frustration after revealing that her husband gives money to their first daughter instead of her, telling her to collect it from the girl whenever she asks for funds.
- The revelation has triggered debates online about respect, trust, and financial roles in marriage.
A Nigerian woman has taken to social media to express her deep frustration over her husband’s unusual financial behavior, revealing that he now gives money to their first daughter instead of her.
According to the woman, her husband has made it a habit to channel household funds through their daughter, leaving her feeling disrespected and sidelined. She lamented that each time she requests money from him, he simply tells her to “collect it from your daughter.”
The distressed wife described the situation as both embarrassing and painful, wondering why her husband would entrust their child with financial responsibilities meant for her as his wife.
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“How can my own husband be giving money to my first daughter instead of me? Whenever I ask him for money, he tells me to collect it from her,” she lamented.
Her post has since gone viral, sparking widespread reactions online. While some social media users sympathized with her, others speculated that her husband might be using the arrangement to teach financial discipline or due to past disagreements about money management.
See some of the reactions below:
@Hills_D0n
He is wrong to be asking her to get money from her daughter, but the reality is that most men love their daughters more than their wife’s
@DiabloChaze
Trust is earned, not handed out.
If he chose the daughter over her, there’s a reason. Period.
@Bonezuko
She must have done something that led to that, I would like to hear from both sides.
@Darlington67289
This is no cruise. I actually know someone in this exact position. I don’t know why, but the relegation is pure gangster. Only the man truly understands sha — these women sometimes dey overdo. 😂
How can my own husband be giving money to my first daughter instead of me? Whenever I ask him for money, he tells me to collect it from her” — Woman expresses frvstration pic.twitter.com/lPlPtiifOZ
— TENIOLA (@Teeniiola) October 23, 2025
